Behaviour intelligence for your digital health and wellbeing

Understand your digital life. And your family's.

Your phone shows you hours and pickups. ThirdLife helps you understand what those hours actually were, so you can build a healthier relationship with your screen. And if you're a parent, you can see how your kids are doing too.

Built privacy-first. No spam, just a note when we open the first beta.

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You Maya, 14 Sam, 11
Thursday
Your week so far
You
Connect Balance Focus Rest
Connect22 min ›
Rest20 min ›
Why it matters

You spend a third of your waking life on a screen. You probably don't know what it's doing to you.

We have never had more data about our screen time, and less understanding of what it's actually doing to us. And if it's happening to us as adults, it's happening to our kids too.

~⅓

of your waking life is now spent on a screen. You rarely know what that time was actually made of.

DataReportal / Statista, 2024
38%

of adults sleep worse because of bedtime screen use, rising to 46% in under-25s. None of us are immune.

Amer. Academy of Sleep Medicine, 2026
40%

of high-schoolers feel persistent sadness or hopelessness, up from 30% a decade ago. The stakes are highest for our kids.

CDC YRBS, 2023

From one more scroll before bed to a feed that slowly shifts your mood, you deserve to understand your digital life, not just measure it. And so do the people you care about.

The gap

Screen-time tools count minutes. They never tell you what mattered.

Three hours in an app could be connection and learning, or three hours of doomscrolling. The number looks identical. The meaning could not be more different. The same is true for your kids.

What your phone shows today

  • Hours spent in each app
  • Number of pickups and notifications
  • A weekly total, up or down
  • The same blunt number for everyone in the house

What ThirdLife helps you understand

  • What you were actually doing
  • Connecting and creating, or doomscrolling
  • Which habits support your wellbeing, and which quietly drain it
  • And the same clear picture for each of your kids
What you'll see

Insight your screen-time tool can't give you.

A clear, honest read on your own digital life. And when you want it, the same thoughtful view for each of your kids, one tap away.

Daily wellbeing rings

Your balance of Connect, Balance, Focus and Rest, filling toward healthy targets. A glance that resets each day.

+ your kids

A weekly story, in plain words

Not a dashboard to decode. A short, human summary of your week and one kind thing worth trying next.

+ your kids

What the algorithm serves

See when your feed quietly narrows to a few themes, before it shapes how you see the world. The same for your teen.

+ your kids

The wind-down

What your hour before sleep really looks like, and whether the phone is helping you rest or stealing it.

+ your kids

Time in flow

How much of your attention was deep and single-task, versus scattered across endless app-switching.

+ your kids

You & AI

Whether you're using AI to create and learn, or to avoid thinking. A new habit worth understanding.

+ your kids
Today
Your day, in balance
Nourishing: learning, connecting38%
Everyday: admin, navigation26%
Doomscrolling36%
For you

A kinder way to see your own screen time.

No shame, no blunt daily number. Just a clear, honest picture of your digital life and gentle, doable ways to make it better.

  • Your daily rings

    See your balance of connection, focus and rest, with gentle targets and no judgement.

  • Your wind-down, honestly

    Find out whether that last scroll is costing you the sleep you keep meaning to protect.

  • Where your attention really goes

    A clear, kind weekly read, with one doable change, never a number to feel bad about.

And if you're a parent

The same understanding, now for your kids too.

Once you're seeing your own digital life clearly, the real worry is often your children's. Add a child's device and you get a meaningful, pattern-level view of how they're really doing, without reading their messages or fighting over screen limits.

  • Themes and trends, never their private messages or who they talk to
  • Graded safety alerts that tell you what's actually worth acting on
  • Age-graduated and consent-based: your child can see what's shared
  • One view across media, sleep, AI use and safety, for each child
Maya's week MMaya, 14 ▾
New adult contactAction

An account outside Maya's usual circle started messaging her. We can't read the chat, but the pattern is worth a check-in.

A flatter week than usualWatch

Her rhythm suggests a quieter, lower mood this week. Nothing alarming on its own, but a warm conversation could help.

We surface a flag, never the message. Maya is told when one is raised.
How it works

Understanding, not surveillance.

Setup takes a minute. It starts with the same screen-time signals your phone already collects, and anything deeper is unlocked only with your explicit consent. Adding a child's device works the same way, with their awareness.

Private by design

Deeper insight runs on the device, not in the cloud. Content is understood without ever leaving the phone.

Trust, not spying

If you add a child, you see patterns and themes, never private messages or contacts. They know what's shared, and it grows with their age.

Insight you can act on

Grounded in behavioural science. Every read ends with a clear, kind next step, for you and anyone you care for.

Honest, not addictive

A tool designed to be needed less over time. The opposite of the apps it helps you understand.

Where we're headed

Starting with you. Going deep.

First

Understand yourself

Wellbeing insight from the signals your phone already has, with your family one tap away. No content, no compromise.

Next

Content-aware

Opt in, and on-device AI reads the meaning behind activity: feed themes, focus, relationships and more.

Ongoing

Smarter, more private

More intelligence moving on-device over time, so understanding deepens while data stays on the phone.

Early access

Be among the first to see clearly.

We're opening a small first beta soon. Join the waitlist and we'll reach out when there's a place for you, and your family if you want it.

Built privacy-first. No spam, just one note when we open the beta.

You're on the list. We'll be in touch.